{"id":628,"date":"2013-07-27T13:09:00","date_gmt":"2013-07-27T10:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=628"},"modified":"2020-12-23T15:57:40","modified_gmt":"2020-12-23T12:57:40","slug":"insan-hayatinda-sevginin-yeri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=628","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan Hayat\u0131nda Sevgi’nin Yeri"},"content":{"rendered":"
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27 Temmuz ’13<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim<\/a><\/strong><\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n
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\u0130nsan hayat\u0131nda sevgi<\/a>, d\u00fcnya<\/a><\/strong> var olduk\u00e7a hep olacakt\u0131r. Ya\u015fam<\/a><\/strong>, sevgi ve payla\u015f\u0131m demektir.<\/p>\n

Bebek<\/a> d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ilk olarak anne sevgisiyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Onun sesiyle hayat\u0131 tan\u0131r, anne sesindeki s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131, sevgiyi hisseder. Annenin t\u00fckenmez sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcr. Anne yemez yedirir, giymez giydirir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk<\/a> ilkokula ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arkada\u015f sevgisini g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve hisseder. \u00c7ocukluk heyecan\u0131yla dostlu\u011fu ve sevgiyi ya\u015far ve ya\u015fat\u0131r. Bu sevgi arkada\u015fl\u0131k, beraber oynama, payla\u015f\u0131m ve ya\u015fam sevgisidir.<\/p>\n

Bulu\u011f \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na giren, 16-17 ya\u015flar\u0131na gelen gen\u00e7lerde kar\u015f\u0131 cins sevgisi ba\u015flar. \u00a0Bu s\u0131cak duygu k\u0131zlara kar\u015f\u0131 duyulan a\u015fk<\/a> ate\u015fi ve sevgidir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar erkek arkada\u015flar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 duyduklar\u0131 bir sevgidir. Her iki cinsin birbirine kar\u015f\u0131 bir etkile\u015fimdir a\u015fk. Bu ya\u015flarda bu duygu bamba\u015fkad\u0131r. Eli eline de\u011fdi\u011finde bir elektriklenme olu\u015fur. \u0130\u015fte bu sevgiliye duyulan sevgi ve a\u015fkt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Orta ya\u015flarda zamanla e\u015fiyle olan a\u015fk ve sevgi dostlu\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Erkekler ya da kad\u0131nlar ars\u0131nda \u00e7ocukluk y\u0131llar\u0131ndan gelen sevgi zamanla dostlu\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Payla\u015f\u0131mlar artar, ileri ya\u015flarda dostluk sevgisi kendini g\u00f6sterir. Bu t\u00fcr dostluklar\u0131 bireyler sanal olarak da ya\u015fayabilir. \u00d6rnek, TV. de sevdi\u011fi ses sanat\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 ve ya sinema filmi, dizi oyuncusuna kar\u015f\u0131 duyulan sevgiler vard\u0131r. Bu t\u00fcr sevgiyi a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ya\u015fayanlar, o ki\u015finin fan\u0131 olurlar. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00f6rnekleri \u00e7oktur. \u201cAd\u0131n\u0131 Feriha Koydum\u201d dizisi ba\u015frol oyuncular\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 duyulan yo\u011fun sevgi, Hazal Kaya Fanlar\u0131, \u00c7a\u011fatay Ulusoy Fanlar\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmu\u015ftur. Bu \u00f6rnek ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiye kar\u015f\u0131 \u00a0duyulan bir \u00f6zlem ve sevgidir.<\/p>\n

Sevgi insanlar\u0131 birbirlerine ba\u011flar. Sevgiyi tatmayan, ya\u015famayan insan hayatta ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamaz.\u00a0 Her ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 i\u015f adam\u0131n\u0131 arkas\u0131nda bir sevdi\u011fi kad\u0131n vard\u0131r. E\u015finden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 sevgi ve a\u015fkla ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n

Mevlana<\/a>\u2019ya g\u00f6re sevgi \u00f6ylesine farkl\u0131, \u00f6ylesine gizemli bir \u015fey ki anlat\u0131lamaz, sevgi hissedilir, insan\u0131n i\u00e7indedir, sevgi ya\u015fan\u0131r ve payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r. Sevgi insanlar\u0131 birbirine ba\u011fla, insanlar aras\u0131ndaki g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ba\u011fd\u0131r sevgi.<\/p>\n

Mevlana\u2019n\u0131n sevgi ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc felsefesi konusundaki s\u00f6zleri insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc anlatmaktad\u0131r. Onun hepimizin bildi\u011fi a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131 s\u00f6zleri hat\u0131rlars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

\u201cGel, yine de gel, kim olursan ol, ister putperest, ister Mecusi ol, bin kere t\u00f6vbeni bozmu\u015f olsan da gel, buras\u0131 hak derg\u00e2h\u0131d\u0131r, burada herkese yer var.\u201d Onun sevgi dolu bu s\u00f6zleri insan\u0131 y\u00fcrekten etkilemektedir.<\/p>\n

Sevgi konusunda ilk akla gelen, insana duyulan a\u015fkt\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n insana olan sevgisinden sonra cans\u0131z varl\u0131klara duyulan sevgi gelir. \u00c7i\u00e7eklere, mevsimlere, do\u011faya, tatile ve para<\/a>ya olan sevgiyi s\u0131ralayabiliriz. Para bazen insan sevgisini yok eder. \u0130nsan\u0131 cimri, egoist yapar, yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u00c7ok paran olaca\u011f\u0131na \u00e7ok dostun olmas\u0131 daha iyidir. Parayla saadet olmaz. Ama dostlarla ge\u00e7en her an insan\u0131 mutlu k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131 dolu dolu, sevgiyle, severek ya\u015fayal\u0131m sevgili okurlar\u0131m.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Sayg\u0131lar, sevgiler.<\/p>\n

Abdurrahman Balc\u0131lar<\/p>\n

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Not: Son okudu\u011fum Can Hikmet De\u011firmenci\u2019 in \u201cKi\u015fisel Geli\u015fim ve Pozitif Enerji\u201d adl\u0131 kitab\u0131ndan bir tak\u0131m al\u0131nt\u0131lar yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

27 Temmuz ’13 Kategori Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \u0130nsan hayat\u0131nda sevgi, d\u00fcnya var olduk\u00e7a hep olacakt\u0131r. Ya\u015fam, sevgi ve payla\u015f\u0131m demektir. Bebek d\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ilk olarak anne sevgisiyle tan\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Onun sesiyle hayat\u0131 tan\u0131r, anne sesindeki s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131, sevgiyi hisseder. Annenin t\u00fckenmez sevgiyle b\u00fcy\u00fcr. Anne yemez yedirir, giymez giydirir. \u00c7ocuk ilkokula ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda arkada\u015f sevgisini g\u00f6r\u00fcr ve hisseder. \u00c7ocukluk […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":26936,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[294],"tags":[298,171,296,299,295,297],"class_list":["post-628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel-gelisim","tag-bebek","tag-cocuk","tag-dunya","tag-mevlana","tag-sevgi","tag-yasam"],"views":3448,"blog_post_layout_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"full":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",636,480,false]},"categories_names":{"294":{"name":"Ki\u015fisel geli\u015fim","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?cat=294"}},"tags_names":{"298":{"name":"bebek","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=bebek"},"171":{"name":"\u00c7ocuk","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=cocuk"},"296":{"name":"d\u00fcnya","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=dunya"},"299":{"name":"Mevlana","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=mevlana"},"295":{"name":"sevgi","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=sevgi"},"297":{"name":"ya\u015fam","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=yasam"}},"comments_number":"0","wpmagazine_modules_lite_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"cvmm-medium":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",300,226,false],"cvmm-medium-plus":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",274,207,false],"cvmm-portrait":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",400,302,false],"cvmm-medium-square":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",600,453,false],"cvmm-large":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",636,480,false],"cvmm-small":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",126,95,false],"full":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/sevgi.jpg",636,480,false]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/628","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=628"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/628\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26943,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/628\/revisions\/26943"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/26936"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}