{"id":615,"date":"2013-07-13T12:50:11","date_gmt":"2013-07-13T09:50:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=615"},"modified":"2014-03-19T12:52:27","modified_gmt":"2014-03-19T10:52:27","slug":"kiz-kacirma-nedenleri-ve-hukuki-sonuclari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=615","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131z ka\u00e7\u0131rma; Nedenleri ve Hukuki sonu\u00e7lar\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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13 Temmuz ’13<\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Kategori<\/dt>\n
A\u015fk – Evlilik<\/a><\/strong><\/dd>\n<\/dl>\n
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\"K\u0131z<\/div>\n
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K\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fczde (Ayd\u0131n<\/a>–Germencik<\/a>–Da\u011fyeni K\u00f6y\u00fc<\/a>) y\u0131lda bir iki de olsa bu naho\u015f olay ya\u015fanmaktad\u0131r. D\u00fcn bir k\u0131z<\/a> ka\u00e7\u0131rma<\/a> olay\u0131 oldu. Bu nedenle konu akl\u0131ma geldi. Nedenlerini a\u00e7\u0131klamak istiyorum. Bu olay genellikle 16-20 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda ya\u015fanmaktad\u0131r. Gen\u00e7lerinin kan\u0131n\u0131n buland\u0131\u011f\u0131 (gen\u00e7 erkeklere delikanl\u0131<\/a> bu y\u00fczden denir) cesaret ve heyecanlar\u0131n\u0131n doruk noktas\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015flard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Genellikle ni\u015fanl\u0131 olmayanlarda g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. O\u011flan k\u0131z\u0131 seviyordur. K\u0131z babas\u0131ndan istetir, vermezler. \u0130ki \u00fc\u00e7 kez \u0131slarla istetir. K\u0131z babas\u0131 Nuh der, Peygamber demez. Bu durumda ka\u00e7maktan ba\u015fka yol bulamazlar. \u00d6nceden anla\u015fan k\u0131z o\u011flan, genellikle gece ge\u00e7 saatleri se\u00e7erler. K\u0131z boh\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlar ve el ele ka\u00e7arlar. Ya kom\u015fu k\u00f6ylere bir akrabalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na ya da k\u00f6y i\u00e7inde ba\u011f evlerine giderler. Kasabaya pek gidilmez. Para gereklidir otelde motel de kalmak i\u00e7in. \u015eayet kasabada o\u011flan\u0131n akrabalar\u0131 varsa onlara s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131l\u0131r. K\u0131z taraf\u0131 3-5 g\u00fcnden \u00f6nce bulamaz. Bazen haftalarca s\u00fcrebilir. K\u0131z taraf\u0131 Jandarmaya \u015fik\u00e2yette bulunur. Yakaland\u0131klar\u0131nda k\u0131z isteyerek gittiyse zorlama yoksa sorun yoktur. E\u011fer k\u0131z 18 ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 doldurmam\u0131\u015fsa sorun te\u015fkil eder. K\u0131z al\u0131n\u0131p ailesine teslim edilir. Sonra da \u015fik\u00e2yet ve mahkeme gelir. Baz\u0131 durumlarda ya\u015f\u0131 tutmasa dahi k\u0131z babas\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6sterirse nik\u00e2hlanmalar\u0131na izin verilir.<\/p>\n

Ni\u015fanl\u0131 \u00e7iftlerde az da olsa bu olay ya\u015fan\u0131r. Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 3-5 sene s\u00fcren gen\u00e7lerde olur. O\u011flan k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n isteklerini yapmakta maddi imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 elvermez. Ba\u015fta oturacaklar\u0131 o\u011flan taraf\u0131n\u0131n, ailesinin evinden ayr\u0131, ev yapmak zorundad\u0131r. Yapamaz. Mahsul\u00fcn para etmemesi, gelirleri yoktur. Tak\u0131 alt\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 yapamaz. K\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fczde daha \u00f6ce bahsetti\u011fim, 5-10 be\u015fibiryerde, 10-15 bilezik ve 2 metre k\u00f6stek alt\u0131n zincir. Bunlar\u0131 yapamaz. Sevgileri \u00e7oksa, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapmadan ka\u00e7makta \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm ararlar. Bu durumda evsiz-alt\u0131ns\u0131z gider k\u0131z. Sonra her iki taraf\u0131n aileleri anla\u015f\u0131r. K\u00f6y d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn salonunda bir balo yap\u0131p, i\u015fi tatl\u0131ya ba\u011flarlar. Art\u0131k k\u0131z taraf\u0131n\u0131n uhdesinde kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r anl\u0131 \u015fanl\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapmak. Tabii bu k\u0131z i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erli.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z taraf\u0131 \u015fik\u00e2yette bulunmaz ise hukuki bir sorun \u00e7\u0131kmaz. K\u0131z 18 ya\u015f alt\u0131nda oldu\u011funda kanunen sorun \u00e7\u0131kar. \u015eayet \u00e7iftler re\u015fit ise, zorlama yoksa Kanun kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda su\u00e7 i\u015flemi\u015f olmazlar. K\u0131z\u0131n re\u015fit olmamas\u0131 durumunda, genellikle k\u00f6y ileri gelenleri,\u00a0 ba\u015fta K\u00f6y Muhtar\u0131 olmak \u00fczere araya girer ve i\u015fi tatl\u0131ya ba\u011flarlar.<\/p>\n

Ne diyelim iki g\u00f6n\u00fcl bir olunca samanl\u0131k seyran olur.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z \u2013 o\u011flan ka\u00e7m\u0131\u015f olsa da, bir yuva kuruyorlar. \u201cAllah mutlu etsin\u201d diyelim.<\/p>\n

Abdurrahman Balc\u0131lar<\/p>\n

Twitter: abdurrahman balc\u0131lar@abbalcilar<\/a><\/p>\n

Face : ab.balcilar@hotmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n

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