{"id":30049,"date":"2025-06-15T21:05:33","date_gmt":"2025-06-15T18:05:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=30049"},"modified":"2025-06-16T12:03:49","modified_gmt":"2025-06-16T09:03:49","slug":"iste-hayatim-5-is-hayatim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?p=30049","title":{"rendered":"\u0130\u015eTE HAYATIM 5 – \u0130\u015f ve Aile Hayat\u0131m"},"content":{"rendered":"

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1975 Yaz\u0131 Temmuz ay\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda askerli\u011fim bitmi\u015f, tekrar \u0130zmir’deki hayat\u0131m ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u0130zmir’in k\u00f6kl\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fck firmalar\u0131ndan oto yedek para\u00e7a sekt\u00f6r\u00fcnde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, Oto Av A\u015f. firmas\u0131n\u0131n Karaba\u011flar Hasanh\u00fcseyinler dura\u011f\u0131nda geni\u015f bir arazi \u00fczerinde Selge\u00e7en Oto Radyat\u00f6r Fabrikas\u0131nda i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

320 i\u015f\u00e7isi olup, 2 vardiya olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. G\u00f6revim Personel \u015fefi idi. Bu i\u015f\u00e7ilerin maa\u015f bordolar\u0131, mesai \u00fccretlerinin hesaplan\u0131p, \u00f6denmesi ve giri\u015f-\u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f i\u015flerinini yapacakt\u0131m. Bir bayan yard\u0131mc\u0131 sekreterim vard\u0131. \u0130ki y\u0131ldan fazla yo\u011fun bir tempoda \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m.<\/p>\n

1977 A\u011fustos ay\u0131nda e\u015fim Fazilet Serpil ile Fo\u00e7a’da tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. \u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fte o beni be\u011fenmi\u015f, ben de ondan ho\u015flanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. Ailelerin tan\u0131\u015fma ve istemesinden sonra biz 24 Eyl\u00fcl 1977\u00a0 tarhinde \u0130zmir Fuar K\u00fcbana Gazinosunda g\u00f6rkemli bir ni\u015fan t\u00f6reni ile y\u00fcz\u00fckleri takt\u0131k. O g\u00fcnlerde k\u00f6yden akraba ve dostlarda bu t\u00f6rene kat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flard\u0131.<\/p>\n

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O g\u00fcnk\u00fc resimde Fazilet’in karde\u015fi Kemal ve benim k\u0131z karde\u015fim \u015e\u00fck\u00fcfe ile d\u00f6rd\u00fcm\u00fcz bir arada.<\/p>\n

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Ni\u015fan sonu Kay\u0131nvalidem Naime ve Kay\u0131npederim Bekir Bekiro\u011flu ile. Bu ni\u015fandan sonra fazla beklemeyip iki ay sonra, 18 Kas\u0131m 1977 tarihinde nikah masas\u0131na oturduk. Konak Maksim’de nikah t\u00f6reni ile evlili\u011fe ad\u0131m att\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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Nikah \u015fahidlerimiz Kemal Soydan, benim de Fehmi Balc\u0131lar (Amcam) idi. Yine k\u00f6yden akrabalar ve aile efrad\u0131m vard\u0131.<\/p>\n

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Bu Balc\u0131lar aile resminde (Soldan Sa\u011fa) A\u011fabeyim \u015eerafettin, Yengem Bedriye, annem Emine, k\u0131zkarde\u015fim \u015e\u00fck\u00fcfe,\u00a0 e\u015fim Fazilet, bendeniz ve babam Mehmet Balc\u0131lar. Resimdeki alt k\u0131s\u0131mda; Sa\u011fda ye\u011fenim Metin ve solda yine ye\u011fenim \u00c7etin g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n

Balay\u0131na, bir haftal\u0131\u011f\u0131na bir tur ile K\u0131br\u0131s’a balay\u0131na gittik. Ne g\u00fcnlerde o g\u00fcnler.<\/p>\n

E\u015fim Fazilet Serpil Balc\u0131lar yeni mezun \u0130ngizce \u00f6\u011fretmeni olmu\u015ftu. \u0130zmir’e Menderes Ortaokuluna tayin ettirdim. Daha sonra da Konak Karata\u015f Ortaokuluna geldi, oradan da emekli oldu.<\/p>\n

15 Eyl\u00fcl 1978 y\u0131l\u0131nda biricik o\u011flum d\u00fcnyaya geldi.<\/p>\n

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1981 y\u0131l\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda g\u00fczel k\u0131z\u0131m Melis ile biz 4 ki\u015filik aile olduk.<\/p>\n

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1.Sanayi Siteside Selge\u00e7en A\u015f’den aytr\u0131ld\u0131ktan sonra 7 y\u0131l Oto Yedek Par\u00e7a perakende kendi i\u015fimizde \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. 1986 y\u0131l\u0131nda Otomak Ltd.\u015eti. 3 ortak a\u00e7t\u0131k. Murat (Soydan), Abdurrahman ve Kemal (Bekiro\u011flu) OTOMAK\u00a0 birlkte a\u00e7t\u0131k. Zemin kat perakende, 2-3-4 toptan yedek par\u00e7a i\u015fine ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130zmir i\u00e7i, Ege, Marmara ve Akdeniz b\u00f6lgesi olmak \u00fczerek geni\u015f bir da\u011f\u0131t\u0131m a\u011f\u0131 ile Tofa\u015f oto yedek par\u00e7a i\u015fi yapt\u0131k. Tofa\u015f ana bayi ve Karland \u0130zmir Bayi olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u00c7ok da g\u00fczel paralar kazand\u0131k. Sanayi i\u00e7inde 150 m2 bir eski d\u00fckkan ald\u0131k, y\u0131kt\u0131r\u0131p 4 katl\u0131 bir bina yapt\u0131rd\u0131k. Toptan k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 bu yeni binaya ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131k. 1996 y\u0131l\u0131nda Kemal Bekiro\u011flu’na b\u0131rakarak perakendeyi ay\u0131rd\u0131k. Murat Soydan ile iki ortak olarak toptan\u0131 devam ettik. 2004 y\u0131l\u0131nda Murat Soydan ile ayr\u0131ld\u0131m.<\/p>\n

2009 y\u0131l\u0131na kadar devam ettim. 2008 y\u0131l\u0131nda o\u011flumu, 2016 y\u0131l\u0131nda k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 evlendirdim. Ne yaz\u0131k ki, her ikisi de bo\u015fand\u0131lar.\u00a0 2010 Mart ay\u0131nda ben de e\u015fimden bo\u015fan\u0131nca fiili emekli oldum. Ana-baba topra\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6ye d\u00f6nmeye karar verdim. K\u00f6ye d\u00f6nd\u00fcm, ana-babadan kalan evi restore ettirdim. Daha sonra ye\u011fenim \u00c7etin ile t\u00fcm evi i\u00e7 s\u0131va, d\u0131\u015f s\u0131va yapt\u0131rd\u0131k. 15 y\u0131ld\u0131r k\u00f6y\u00fcmde ya\u015f\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

Devam edecek!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1975 Yaz\u0131 Temmuz ay\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda askerli\u011fim bitmi\u015f, tekrar \u0130zmir’deki hayat\u0131m ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u0130zmir’in k\u00f6kl\u00fc b\u00fcy\u00fck firmalar\u0131ndan oto yedek para\u00e7a sekt\u00f6r\u00fcnde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, Oto Av A\u015f. firmas\u0131n\u0131n Karaba\u011flar Hasanh\u00fcseyinler dura\u011f\u0131nda geni\u015f bir arazi \u00fczerinde Selge\u00e7en Oto Radyat\u00f6r Fabrikas\u0131nda i\u015fe ba\u015flad\u0131m. 320 i\u015f\u00e7isi olup, 2 vardiya olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yordu. G\u00f6revim Personel \u015fefi idi. Bu i\u015f\u00e7ilerin maa\u015f bordolar\u0131, mesai \u00fccretlerinin hesaplan\u0131p, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":30062,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[340],"tags":[1764,2685,2684,2681,2683,2682],"class_list":["post-30049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anilar","tag-abdurrahman-balcilar","tag-kemal-bekiroglu","tag-murat-soydan","tag-oto-av-as","tag-otomak-ltd","tag-selgecen-radyator-fabrikasi"],"views":1112,"blog_post_layout_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"full":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13.jpg",549,551,false]},"categories_names":{"340":{"name":"An\u0131lar","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?cat=340"}},"tags_names":{"1764":{"name":"Abdurrahman Balc\u0131lar","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=abdurrahman-balcilar"},"2685":{"name":"Kemal Bekiro\u011flu","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=kemal-bekiroglu"},"2684":{"name":"Murat Soydan","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=murat-soydan"},"2681":{"name":"Oto Av A\u015f","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=oto-av-as"},"2683":{"name":"Otomak Ltd","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=otomak-ltd"},"2682":{"name":"Selge\u00e7en Radyat\u00f6r Fabrikas\u0131","link":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/?tag=selgecen-radyator-fabrikasi"}},"comments_number":"0","wpmagazine_modules_lite_featured_media_urls":{"thumbnail":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"cvmm-medium":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-300x300.jpg",300,300,true],"cvmm-medium-plus":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-305x207.jpg",305,207,true],"cvmm-portrait":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-400x551.jpg",400,551,true],"cvmm-medium-square":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13.jpg",549,551,false],"cvmm-large":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13.jpg",549,551,false],"cvmm-small":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13-130x95.jpg",130,95,true],"full":["https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Resim-13.jpg",549,551,false]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=30049"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30049\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":30071,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/30049\/revisions\/30071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/30062"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=30049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=30049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/balcilar-blog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=30049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}